Have you ever said “yes” when your whole spirit was screaming “no”?
In this Aisha On Air episode, I’m opening up about the moment I decided to stop being the “yes” girl and how that one shift transformed my creativity, confidence, and peace of mind.
This isn’t just about setting boundaries, it’s about survival as a Nigerian creative in a world that will happily drain you dry if you let it. I share the real-life situations that pushed me to this turning point, how I learned to say “no” without guilt, and how it’s helping me grow in music, writing, and life.
Whether you’re a creative, an entrepreneur, or just someone tired of people-pleasing, you’ll walk away from this video inspired to protect your time, energy, and sanity.
What you’ll learn in this episode:
- Why saying no is a superpower for creatives.
- How to handle friends, family, and clients who push boundaries.
- Real Nigerian experiences that made me draw the line.
- How “no” can actually create more opportunities.


